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Perception Drives Behavioral Choices

Perception is unique to each individual. It is a lens you use (whether conscious or not) to make sense of what you notice. Perception is a quick way of seeing things that aids your brain in the speed in which it processes information. Your perspective impacts your attitude, behavior and consequences; it's your relative reality. It’s a strong influencer in decision outcomes and is not likely to change until your ways don’t match your anticipated outcomes. Until something interrupts your perspective, you will not be able to see the connection between your actions and the resulting consequences stifling the learning that comes from feedback. (This could be one reason you haven’t been able to break free from an addictive lifestyle; accurate feedback improves your outcomes, if you let it rework your beliefs and habits.) A faulty feedback system hampers the self-awareness you need to be responsible and continually improve.

 

Take a very basic example. If for some reason, you think you can fly, but you when you jump off a building, you realize the truth of the law of gravity. Perspective is a learned trait; but it’s experience and truth that proves it right. As you discover more of the truth, your perspective shifts, your opinion becomes more objective, and wisdom develops because you can see the value of learning from experience instead of persisting in the wishful thinking that develops from a faulty feedback system. There is a correlation between your perception and your maturity and it’s based on your willingness to change. Take the following test to get a clearer picture of the word perception.  

Take a Second Look

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  1. Let your eyes linger on the picture of the frog for a few            seconds. Recall the thoughts you had while you were  looking at it.

  2. Shift your focus to the next picture of the horse and do the      same thing. Think about what new thoughts came to mind.

  3. When you are told that the picture of the horse head is the    same picture as the frog - simply turned, will you turn the picture, look at it again and consider it? Or do you disregard the instruction to take a second look so you can move on and maintain your belief? 

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Intentionally Interrupt the Automacy of Heuristics

  • Heuristics are an automatic mode of thinking, mental shortcuts that enable quick, effortless and often unconscious decisions and judgments.

Impulses stem from the stimuli your senses detect and then these prompt you into decision-making. The impulse to make a snap decision is a natural function of human beings. It is due to the way the brain processes information. In automatic processing, the goal of the brain is to expedite the processing of incoming information so you take swift action. Similar to, but not quite like, natural instincts such as the instinct for self-preservation - known as the "survival instinct".

 

An impulse is like taking a short cut. Your brain defaults to the use of memory rather than thought. The brain generates the impulse for you to act in a way that you have used in the past to resolve a similar stimuli, even when the choice did not prove itself to be a thorough or long-term solution. Thus the difference between instinct and intention is a deliberate choice. Your brain is so efficient it just jumps into the action that you have normally taken. Both physical and mental heuristics combine to make everyday, snap decisions so you aren't weighed down with analyzing details for each of the thousands of decisions made per day. This is the efficiency of the brain, but it is not effective when trying to make change.

The picture of the frog/horse head is an example that shows how quickly your brain produces snap judgements. It happens so fast you hardly know it's a process taking place. It's not until conscious awareness breaks through that you will interrupt the automacy so there is time to move from impulse to intentionally selecting thoughts with which to make a decision. The pictures above are an example of this ability of your mind to correct it's thinking. At first, you may have taken the picture of the frog at face value and didn't give it a second thought. (This may be one reason why you can't understand why old habits are hard to break.) It is not until someone points out an alternative view-the picture is a horse head- that prompts you to take a second look at the picture and make an intentional decision to respond to it. 

Think of perception as shaping the way you interpret stimuli. Consider a black and white picture as a neutral, objective viewpoint. Now consider it as a color picture. The color, if you will, makes it vulnerable to a subjective, biased view. This is what skews your human perspective, giving its personal uniqueness. The stimuli (or trigger) moves your brain to assess the situation in a way that draws upon a memory of how you took prior action to a similar feeling or circumstance in the past. The brain automation process channels and organizes details so that it can take swift action on all the random triggers that pop up in your life over and over again. It is perception that colors the TV screen. Your perception cannot change the channel, but it can decide to remain engaged in what's on. It takes a second thought to produce the action of changing the channel.

 

Applying Snap Judgements to Intentional Living

At best, perception can be an efficient and effective way to deal with an issue. Where it becomes misleading is when you are trying to do something new and you have not yet developed the visual and physical habits that can replace the old ones. This could be one reason your anticipated change regarding addiction doesn’t materialize. For example, one of the thoughts that may have sprang up in your head in response to a certain stimuli might be a  memory, one in the form of a familiar habit. It could be as simple as being at a party and seeing a keg of beer. Before you know it, you've poured yourself a glass without even giving your brain an intentional direction.

 

Perception - your personal reality - cushions and shades how you interpret stimuli so you can react with a quick decision. You (We) may sometimes implement a thought because it feels comfortable ... like something you saw modeled in your home in childhood (dysfunctional or not). The brain's goal is efficiency; its method is impulsive, not intentional. Past decisions become automated responses unless you think otherwise. This is somewhat easier to see when applied to your body language; facial expressions, posture, etc.. Until this pattern is intentionally interrupted, it won't change.

  • When someone draws your attention to the fact that the picture can also be a horse head, how do you react?

  • Will you take a second look with a more open mindset and entertain a different conclusion?

  • How do you feel about change?

 

Be Open to Growing Your Perception

Open-mindedness is a personality trait that describes a way in which some people consider things outside your frame of reference (another word for perception). The more open-minded you are, the more you are able to grow your own perspective. This sounds easy, like it's something you do automatically, but do you? There are a few biases that are formed in association with brain functioning that can alter snap judgements, these are mostly helpful short cuts. Being aware that snap judgements can be wrong and that biases exist will help you be more intentional to grow through life making better decisions, rather than getting stuck and spinning your wheels. Be open to giving some things a second look/thought.

 

For example, due to the comfort zone bias, you want to believe your that first initial interpretation of the stimulus is correct causing you to implement a decision in the present that you have used in the past, even when it didn't produce the best consequences. Even when you are aware that you use this comfort zone bias, another one to be aware of is the "belief perseverance" bias; continuing to apply the first solution you learned to a continuing problem (even though it's never worked). Together these cause a tendency for you to automatically choose a familiar, efficient action over the most appropriate action.

 

The dangers of a closed-minded or limited perspective is that when you are presented with information that is outside of your frame of reference or "comfort zone", your first impulse/thought may be to reject the information and, in so doing, inadvertently discard the Truth. Perception even shapes the way you anticipate the future and is why perception and attitude are so closely aligned. Knowing this tendency arms you with a readiness to address it. 

How you interpret your thoughts determines your attitude and actions. What do you do with all the thoughts that come to your mind? 

  • What do you do with the information gathered through your senses?

  • Do you do the first thought that satisfies your impulse for short-term gratification?

  • Do you await alternate thoughts to come to mind before choosing one?

  • Do you discard and deny those that make you feel uncomfortable?

  • Do you justify your thoughts based on your emotions and rights?

Your mind triggers thoughts indiscriminately and constantly. Don't try to block out a thought. Let each one present itself so you can intentionally decide what to do with it; accept it, reject it or store for later use. Do not be tempted to take action on the first thought that is generated. Be patient and be picky! 

Play the Mind Game Before Acting 

Try visualizing the thought evaluation process like a popcorn machine stationed in the back of your mind. Picture each stimuli from your senses generating a thought, in your mind, one after another, until you stop the process by making a decision. Watch each thought float from the back of your mind, through a narrow tunnel before exiting out through your eyes. As the thought is moving, evaluate its worth against the walls of the tunnel-your values and standards. If the thought doesn’t stick to the walls-your criteria, then let that particular thought exit through your eyes. If you aren't sure about the worth of the thought, attach it to the wall until you can research it. As each thought is moving through the tunnel and is rejected, don't get impatient.The right thought will come, just wait for it. The efficiency of playing the game improves with each use. 

This process will produce a decision, but how good the decision is debatable because of the subjectivity, emotional volatility, and common biases being used in your evaluation process. This is where a higher authority can help you consider the best decision, one that meets your needs and are consistent with your values. Calling on a trusted higher authority will point out objective truths that will lead you to the most appropriate decision for you, based on your values. Objective input helps you construct and maintain a filter that guards against personal or social biases that stunt your growth and halt learning. Left alone, your snap decisions are typically me-centered with the goal of instant gratification to relieve uncertainty, regardless of future consequences. By inviting a trusted Higher Authority to check your desires against the truth,

you can avoid faulty, subjective, decisions while strengthening your filter. You are always responsible for your decisions so choose your higher authority carefully. 

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By knowing the Word of God, you'll develop voluntary boundaries to behavior which will make your decisions intentional and objective rather than spontaneous and subjective (see Appendix 2H). Not only will you have more options to choose from when making a decision but you'll be able to recognize the right solution.  Be intentional and selective. Use your faith to frame and evaluate your incoming thoughts and information. Pick the thought that brings character integrity to your beliefs. Doing this makes Christian cognitive consistency a reality in your life.

Your brain is built with is the ability to categorize information. This is mostly a good thing but not when compartmentalizing God. You may just want God to rescue you from your addiction, and He can, but there’s more to His nature than grace. God can pull you out of a disastrous situation, but unless you change your behavioral habits, the rescue will only be temporary (Psalm 91). Both thinking and acting on right thoughts are skills you need to want to develop. To have a steady supply of Godly thoughts to choose from when making a decision (biblical discernment), you need to have a prepared mind. If you don’t know God's Word, you will not be able to recognize God’s direction. 

The Attitude and Behavior Connection

Memories stored in your brains' filter are intensified (or not) based on the accompanying emotions attached to the thought. Accepting the pain associated with the memory of a stimulus can release you from errors in judgement which enhances the learning process and keeps you more open-minded. Choosing the right Higher Authority can help you work through this too. If your filter is not based on truth, if you allow negative emotions roam freely, and/or if you are not open to growing your perspective throughout life, you get stuck with a limited perspective and this affects your maturity and resulting behavioral choices. (In a sense, you are limiting your own choices). The more knowledge and wisdom you allow into your filter as you go through life, the broader your perception becomes and the more long-term decisions you will make.

  • The subject of your emotional IQ ties in with the concept of perception and its impact on health and well-being, see Appendix 1T.

  • Flexing your personality to respond to people with a different perception then you is discussed throughout the second main section, "Manage Self in a Social Word". 

  • Take some time to explore the self-quizzes in the "Capture your Vision" tab to take a closer look at how confidence or anxiety taints your decision-making.

 

Belief perseverance (ingrained patterns of thinking and doing) may be contributing to the continuation of your unhealthy habits. This is why changing a biased, subjective viewpoint is slow to start on your own initiative. It takes time, input from a respected source and a concentrated effort to a master a change in your personality patterns. 

Sometimes it may take addiction or something else in life that you can’t control (like a car accident, a weather disaster, death, etc.) to come to the point where you are ready to accept the truth and change your perception resulting in a new paradigm with like behavior. Belief perseverance is a major contributor to closed mindedness.

Choosing God as your highest authority can break through cultural ties and reposition you to operate and develop heuristics based on truth which promotes your Christian cognitive consistency (acting consistently with the ways of God). When you follow God as your Higher Authority and trust His method of achieving peace as recorded in Colossians 3:14-15, you'll be patient and wait for a thought to enter your conscious that reflects Godly, not worldly,  integrity that acts out an eternal perspective (hope filled faith). When perception is based on truth, as in recorded in the Bible, it prevents you from a wrong interpretation of the message and saves you from the experience of being deceived by the perception and influence of yourself and/or other people (Ephesians 4:13-15). For example, the Apostle Paul made the statement, “Godliness with contentment is great gain” (1 Timothy 6:6). Paul's perception change was a complete 180 turn in both his attitude and behavior as he journeyed through life incorporating truths into his relative reality.

To act on what you believe, you need to be able to trust the source of your belief as Truth - proven reliable. When you do, you'll see the consistency between your attitude and behavior. One consequence from trusting God is that you experience rest deep in your soul (mind, will, emotions and even imagination). If you do not experience this rest and calmness, recheck your perspective. Are you magnifying God or yourself as you process your circumstances? (Luke 8:25, Isaiah 30:15, John 15:4-5, https://www.gotquestions.org/let-peace-Christ-rule-hearts.html). Be mindful of God and be conscious of your perspective. Don’t allow human emotions like fear and worry to surpass the Word of God (1 Peter 5:6-7, 2 Timothy 1:7, Matthew 6:33).  
 

Deciding to act on God’s Word is how you break a cycle of self-defeating behavioral habits. ​Placing God at the center of your life, praying, reading the Bible and letting the Holy Spirit lead you in all areas of life, not just to church, is evidence of your faithful commitment to God! But this process doesn't begin with a decision to trust God. It will be effectual when you decide to elevate God to the highest priority in life. It is this realignment that shapes your thinking and perspective with your values before you act (Proverbs 12:25, Romans 8:28, 1 Corinthians 14:33, Galatians 5:22, Philippians 4:8).

 

Perception is Stagnant when Weighed Down by Pride 

Pride traps you. Either too much pride (arrogance) or not enough of it (shyness) indicates an unhealthy self-concept that is driven by a need to prove self-worth. The Bible is clear that it’s OK to encourage and admonish each other and to take pride in the goodness of God. But we cross into sin when pride revolves around ourselves to the exclusion of recognizing God and His presence in others. Without Christ at the center of your life, you either think too highly of or too lowly of yourself but the point is that you think too much of yourself. Security “in Christ” yields confidence while anxiety and self-reliance yield fear, worry, and false pride (Deuteronomy 10:12-13, 2 Chronicles 26:16, 32:26, Jeremiah 4:22, Psalm 91:1-2, Matthew 6:25-34). 

  • Once you align yourself with God, your life will change, as experienced by Saul who transformed his personality into the Apostle Paul. 

  • Are you blind to your own pride? (Read more @ https://www.allaboutgod.com/sin-of-pride-5.htm).

  • Do you invite God's wisdom into decision-making?

Antisocial behavior occurs when you no longer negotiate between your own interests and

those of the common good of societal interests.​

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The sin of pride is seen throughout the Bible, beginning with Eve’s decision in Genesis 3 to doubt God’s instructions. Pride enhances a relative reality and denies or blocks Truth. When you loose sight of this fundamental truth, you open the door to doubt God which awakens self indulgence. (The belief perseverance basis will entrap you.) When sin is chosen, it signals that you have chosen to follow the “way of Cain" by trusting in your own beliefs (Genesis 4:6-7, Jude 1:11). God is the creator of the universe and the supreme authority over all creation whether you know/admit it or not. When you chose to do things that are self-serving and disrespectful to God and, as a byproduct, to others, you have just made a value decision, howbeit unconsciously, that you will NOT honor the Lord by positioning Him above yourself or others (James 4:7, 1 Peter 5:5, Ephesians 3:20, Exodus 14:14, 2 Chronicles 20:17).

Unlocking the Key to Life

Jesus declares, “I am the way, truth, life. No one comes to me except through the Father” (John 14:6). When you choose to enter into this relationship with Him because you've been humbled by His eminence, you’ll experience the freedom inherent in a Holy God. To be free to love as a child of God, you need to use His mercy and grace (as only a humble person can do) to live within the boundaries of self-less Love (Appendix 2H). Jesus showed us how to do this by knowing, making the decision to live by and demonstrating the truth of God’s Word, despite popular culture. Humbling yourself to the point where you imitate Jesus shows you have replaced self-love for love and trust in God.

  • "Pride" is both a psychological and social issue. Read more about the human tendency to have "defense mechanisms" in Appendix 1K and how that affects social relationships; see "Negotiate Rather than Compete" in section two, "Manage Self in a Social World". 

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Spiritual righteousness expressed in your soul and body motivated by self-less love is evidence of the spiritual awakening and the key to living life with an eternal perspective

(John 8:31-32, 1 Thessalonians 5:23, 1 Corinthians 1:30-31, 11:1, 2 Corinthians 5:21, Hebrews 5:9). 

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