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Appendix 2T; Love is Self-sacrificing ​

Love motivates reciprocal relationships (Carnegie, (1988), 1 John 5:3). God is love* and His love is self-sacrificing and unconditional as proven by His actions (1 Peter 4:8, 1 John 4:8-9, Psalm 34:8). God initiated the love relationship with you and me and, as “while we were yet sinners”, He sent Jesus Christ into the world to offer mankind an invitation to be freed from the corruption of sinful behavior (Romans 5:8). Christ died for all, but God knew that not everyone would understand or accept this blessing. Being grateful opens the door to relationship building as it creates a willingness to trust and when trust is earned, love can grow unconditionally. When you honor or respect a spiritual God, you show it physically through your behavior reflecting His character.

 

Jesus placed God first in His life and modeled what it looks like to not only honor but to love God. Jesus displayed self-sacrificial love, described in the Bible as offering yourself as “a living sacrifice” to God (or) described another way, He lived His everyday life serving God and other people regardless of the cost to himself (Romans 12:1-3, Matthew 26:50-53). He voluntarily held himself hostage (using His free will) to the boundaries of God’s holiness (Appendix 2H) to give you the opportunity to become a Child of God.

 

By asking for and accepting this free gift from God, you receive the Holy Spirit in your heart to not only identify you as such, spiritually, but to grant you access to the power to imitate Christ physically (1 Peter 2:24, Ephesians 1:13, Deuteronomy 31:8, https://www.gotquestions.org/be-imitators-of-God.html). When you respond to God by deciding you want to be like Jesus, your heartfelt intentions are empowered so you have the ability to do it; though because of the love of God, He will not grade your physical performance (Ephesians 2:8-9, 3:16-19, 5:1-2 Appendix 1U).

When you join God’s family, your love for and gratitude to God is shown by honoring Him with heartfelt ACTIONS (1 Peter 1:14-16). Trusting and loving God is choosing to deny yourself the pleasure of pursuing your own agenda and lusts (1 John 2:16, Colossians 3:10, 3:12). Adapting a mindset of gratitude produces behavior in you that shows you are loyal to God and that you value Him above everyone else (Jeremiah 9:23-24, Matthew 22:34-40, John 3:30, 1 Corinthians 6:19-20, 2 Corinthians 5:11-14, James 1:14-15, 1 John 2:16). YOUR DECISION TO DO THIS ACTIVATES THE WISDOM AND POWER OF CHRIST IN YOU (1 Corinthians 1:23-24, James 3:13-18).

 

The Apostle Paul warns Christians that all will continue to struggle against the lust of the flesh but that those who remain “in Christ” (persist in Spirit infused self-control and patience) will prevail over the temptation to sin (Proverbs 2:5, Romans 1:16-28, 7:15-25, 8:29, 1 Corinthians 1:18, 10:13, Ephesians 1:3-8, 1 Timothy 6:11-12, 1 Colossians 1:27). To remain in Christ means that you will choose to be dependent on the promptings of the Holy Spirit so that Christlike attitudes and behaviors follow, even when you don’t feel like it! This is the work of faith (1 Thessalonians 1:3, John 1:12-13). It is your personal sacrifice to a Holy, sovereign God (Ephesians 6:5-8). It’s when you sacrifice doing YOUR will for doing the will of the God because you are grateful for His love and you choose to trust Him, you become motivated to show Him love back by loving others.   ​

Billy Graham once said: “At its best, anxiety distracts us from our relationship with God …” Anxious thoughts keep the focus on your kingdom - what you can and can't control. This type of thinking is ​me centered. Shift your perspective. Focus, instead, on God. God knows the past, present and future and promises that no matter how bad things may seem, He will use be with you through it and will "make all things turn out for the good of those who love God" (Mark 9:23, Romans 8:28). Don't lose sight of God when you get trapped by hard circumstances and let those circumstances affect your attitude (Isaiah 40:31, Galatians 6:9-10). Discipline yourself to remain focused on remaining committed to showing God's love. After you make this shift in your mindset, shift your behavior and even your surroundings. Find a place where you can feel comfortable and be encouraged to show others the kindness of Holy love. 

  • "Engage your Faith"- Appendix 2Q,  don't isolate! 

  • Read more in this book by Vernick, Leslie, 2003. How to Find Selfless Joy in a Me-First World. 

Decide today to allow

the power of the Holy Spirit to work through you!!​

*God is love; He is holy, righteous, and just. (Exodus 34:6, Psalm 89:14, Isaiah 43:3-4, Micah 6:8, 1 Peter 1:14-16). Make room in your life for God. Mindfulness

of God keeps you humble, and humility keeps you grateful. Jesus told us to abide in Him. When we accept Christ as Savior, we all have the same power within our heart to live in a lifestyle that is pleasing to God, but the results vary in proportion to extent of your commitment to your decision. Gratitude to God is what will keep you focused during the inevitable disappointments that result from a sin-filled world. 

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Are you willing to let God be the Lord of your life?

  • Read more about humble love in Appendix 2S.

  • Practice self-discipline. ​

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